Saturday, January 14, 2017

New year, new me and two new men.


New year, new me and two new men. 

 

2017, the year of another reinvention. The year I get back on the health track. The year I stop being single. 

Well maybe best 2 out of 3? 

 

New Year's Eve I had planned to go to a casino, drop $40, have a drink and be home before midnight. Ya know, the usual. Before I headed to the casino I drove out to a Pokémon hot spot. Yes, I became a Pokémon hunter. That even sounds pathetic to me. 

Anyway. While I'm arriving someone sends me a message on plenty of fish. Normally I just glance and delete. But this dude was local so I responded. 

Introduce online small talk. Blah. 

 

I mentioned where I'd be and that it'd be a ton more fun than his folding clothes. He was dense and didn't pick up the hint right away. Once he did, he agreed to meet me at a karaoke bar. 

 

He said he'd meet me around 10. I got there around 930. I sang a song and as 10 approached I figured he'd be like so many other douches I've encountered and he either wouldn't show or tuck tail and run. 

 

He did show however. He texted me and I guess I saw him before he saw me. When he didn't come to join me at my table, again my mind went to the other douches. Finally he saw me and joined me. He even paid for the 2 beers, one was before he got there even. 

 

The evening was filled with drunk watching and attempting to get to know each other over the singing. 

 

I did get a peck at midnight and a decent kiss at the truck to end the night. And he's still texting me. 

 

In fact, he came to a basketball game and took me to dinner after. 

 

And he's still texting me. 

 

Enter the 2nd dude. 

 

I've known this 2nd dude for years. He's hinted off and on the last couple months picking up something with me. He hinted more action in the sack and less romance. I'm just too damn old for that game and too long single. 

 

Well he started texting more this week and met for lunch one day. 

 

Both seem to be wanting something real and both keep texting. 

 

My bestest friend doesn't seem to think the one is good for me at all. Says he's a player and a user. She doesn't know the other at all. 

 

I'm willing to keep my options open at the moment. I don't want to close any doors. I

Really want something real and lasting in my life. Maybe 2017 is my year. I can only hope.