I’m not sure I’m cut out for this relationship
stuff. I want this to work out badly. I like this dude a lot. He makes me
laugh, he’s super sweet. I just don’t know if I can handle the stress of waiting
for the next foot to drop.
I’m trying to not hold up walls at the same
time hold up enough walls to keep my sanity if the other foot drops and it
doesn’t work out. I’m so tired of failing.
So I have to ask myself if I’m wanting this to
work because I’m afraid to fail again and prove that it’s not all me and my
fault?
Am I wanting this to work just so that I’m not
alone any more? Am I looking for trouble, waiting for the other foot to drop.
I never thought of myself as a need person,
but in this since of reassurance, I have become one.
I guess I need to catch back up.
So NYE dude is weird. Just really weird. He’s
OCD to the nth degree. He got upset with my lifestyle of clutter and couldn’t
hack it, walked away. Even if he’s sent me some really, nearly desperate texts
that he maybe thinks he made a mistake. Monday night I finally just texted him
that I’m trying with an old friend and really want it to work.
Back to the old friend. He and I have been
texting and hanging out a lot. The last few days the texts haven’t been exactly
all the time like they were, which hence has my stress up and has me really
flabbergasted at my reactions and just messed up all the way around. Emotional
to say the least.
I’ve gone his way the last couple of weekends
to spend some time with him. Yesterday, on the holiday I truly dispise…
Valentine’s Day I really do hate it like really really really hate it, I took a
vacation day to hang with him. We went fishing. Off and on through the day it
felt real, but he felt hung back. I really don’t know what to feel and how fast
to fall. I’m afraid I’m already there. Which brings back the rest of my
emotions and questions.
I want to hide away for a good cry. I really do.
I want him to show me one way or another, I can’t handle my guessing. I’m
usually not right anyway. Grrrr. Why can’t it just work already for me.
What makes matters worse… I’ve told people. A
lot of people, well maybe not a lot but more than I normally would that I’m
seeing someone…. What if that makes me a fool? What if that makes me a larger
more hideous fool. I’ll look like I fell on my face again. Why?