So why did I disappear? This blog is for me, well and whomever cares to read they hum drum boring life of a single 30-something. I got busy, frustrated, whatever, it wasn't a priority. Now.... I need to get back into writing as an outlet again.
No! No men were involved in this hiatus, swear. Well, no solid real man anyway, not to say those online have attempted to solicit explicit photos, hook ups etc. I still haven't had a real date in FOREVER! Ok so at least over a year.
If I had quick answers to why, I'd hope I could be able to fix that and be happily taken.
So I'm still online POF, OKCupid, Eharmony when they have free communication weekends. Why not pay for the service? Well I have before a couple of times, and it reaped ZERO prospects!
As an experiment this past weekend I set up a new profile. My REAL profile is pretty blunt in what who I am, what I want and includes photos showing my entire body and is very tasteful. While that profile got some responses, there were a lot of messages I ignored and it's been up a while.
So the new profile had a pick of my in a bathing suite (the angle the photo was taken, it does look shows the a bikini top and looks like I have a decent, albeit WHITE, body). The photo is FAR from a full body image. I also posted two pics of my tattoos. I have two, one on each shoulder blade. My headline: "So, do you have balls?!" My description was very short and extremely vague as to who I am.
I posted the photo around 9 on a Friday night and by midnight I had over 40 responses. SERIOUSLY?! I turned it the profile off on Tuesday after close to 100. I turned it back on today and guess what? At least two dozen more.
These dudes no nothing about me and what I look like. I MEAN REALLY!?
I think the term this day and age is catfishing.
While this isn't getting me any closer to a date, it was entertaining.
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